Men and women are different - that shouldn't come as a surprise. But sometimes, these differences can ruin a relationship. They can outweigh some of your loveliest attributes. These differences may be so intolerable that they can turn a man away, even if the relationship was going well.

These are some of the most common female behaviors that men complain about:

1. Women who curse

Swearing doesn't look attractive coming from anyone, but when women swear, it becomes even more unattractive. This vulgar habit conflicts with the femininity men love so much about women.

2. Women who gossip

Men do not like gossiping women who make a point to talk badly about other people's lives and spread lies and rumors. If he hears the way you talk about others, he gets an idea about how you speak about him when he's not there.

3. Vain women

Women whose focus is onlyon the way they act or dress aren't taken seriously by most men. Their provocative looks may draw attention at first, but it never lasts.

4. Careless women

Men like women who mindful and attentive in all aspects of their lives. While a man who truly loves you will think you're beautiful in your sweatpants, no amount of love can make it OK for a woman to be constantly rude, lazy and unshowered.

5. Women with a bad attitude

Mood swings are a common (especially around "that time of the month") but if a woman has a consistently bad attitude, no man is going to want to date her. Try to keep your own spirits up and encourage yourself to be patient and understanding. With these changes, you'll attract a man who is will to do the same for you.

6. Women who hurt feelings

When you make fun of your man and the things he does in front of other people, your beau feels ashamed or embarrassed. No one wants to spend time with a person who is intentionally hurtful, even if it's just for a laugh.

7. Women who criticise

Women who only scold, criticise and never give a single compliment are seen as annoying and grouchy - not someone you want to be around.

8. A greedy women

A women who is focused on money and spending will lead to a bad break up. There is no way a relationship of understanding and financial security can flourish with this type of habit. Men who realize their woman is greedy leave in a heartbeat.

Fortunately, these undesirable attitudes and tendencies can be changed. We all have the opportunity to rethink our behavior, especially if it is one that's causing any man in your life to leave.

This article has been adapted and translated from the original, "8 coisas sobre as mulheres que os homens acham desagradáveis." It was originally published on familia.com.br.

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A lasting relationship needs daily nurturing if you don't want it to wither.

Kind gestures or words are necessary to keep the flame of love burning bright in your marriage. But some of your bad habits or lack of compassion can change your wife from the spunky, bright woman she used to be, into an insecure stranger. Avoid these five actions and save your beautiful relationship while you still can:

1. Lack of attention

Your wife understands that you have difficult days full of commitments and responsibilities, but she still wants you to spend time with her. She doesn't want to compete with your television programs, video games or cell phones. Regardless of your circumstances, she needs your attention, and she should be your number one priority.

2. Lack of praise

Women love to be praised, especially by their husbands. Compliments make your wife feel confident and loved, so don't shy away from admiring her attributes and qualities. Also, compliments don't have to stay behind closed doors. Give her praise in front of your family so everyone can see how much you adore her.

3. Lack of dating

You need to continue dating even after you are married, perhaps even more than you did before you exchanged vows. Dedicate a specific day of the week, or once a month if time allows, to spend an evening with your wife. Those fun, romantic date nights will make her fall for you all over again.

4. Excessive criticism

The daily grind causes both the good and bad sides of your personality to show, but a bad day doesn't give you the right to criticize your spouse. If your wife endures constant criticism from you, her confidence and your relationship will shatter. Remember that everyone has qualities to improve on. No one is perfect, but instead of criticizing her, offer her your support to better yourselves together.

5. Comparisons

It doesn't matter if you're comparing your wife to your mother or to a dear family friend, just don't do it. Comparing her to someone else will hurt her heart and her confidence deeply.

Where there is love, there is healing. Be aware of your wife and her needs, and also be aware of your attitude toward her. By doing so, you will have a long, happy life together.

This article was adapted and translated from the original, "5 maneiras em que os homens estão matando silenciosamente suas esposas." It was originally published on familia.com.br.

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The famous wedding vows, "for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health," are commonly known to everyone. Couples expect these vows to become a reality - to be their companion's priority at all times and in all circumstances.

Life's demanding routines often separate couples little by little, making both partners independent. However, this shouldn't interfere with your number one priority.

A happy couple always puts each other first. Despite time-consuming responsibilities, a husband must always make his wife his first priority to have a lasting, healthy marriage.

1. Prioritize your spouse over your family members

No family member should take priority over your spouse. Help and spend time with your family members when necessary, but do so after meeting your wife's needs and conversing with her first. You should both decide together when that method is or is isn't appropriate.

Remember, your wife's needs come first.

2. Prioritize your wife over your friends

Spending time with friends is fun and relaxing. However, once you are married, it's important you put your wife before your friends.

Together, decide when it's appropriate to go out with friends. Who knows, you may enjoy spending time together even more so than going out with friends.

3. Prioritize your wife over any other woman

No woman should ever come before your wife. She is the only woman who deserves your admiration, praise, affection and time. If you give those things to another woman, you are being unfaithful to your wife.

4. Prioritize time with your spouse over time with your children

No doubt, time with your family is important, but don't let the time you spend with your children diminish the relationship and time you reserve for your spouse. Prioritize your wife first and your children second in your family life.

5. Prioritize your spouse over your time on social media and internet

Nowadays, it's very easy to spend hours on social media entertaining yourself, but be careful about how much time you spend surfing the web. Set limits so you can preserve the time at home to spend with your loved ones and give attention to those who need it.

Your wife is your queen and should be treated like one. Undoubtedly, your dedication, love and companionship will be reflected in your relationship.

This article was adapted and translated from the original, "O marido deve sempre priorizar a esposa (principalmente nestas 5 situações)." It was originally published on familia.com.br.

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A lasting relationship needs daily nurturing if you don't want it to wither.

Kind gestures or words are necessary to keep the flame of love burning bright in your marriage. But some of your bad habits or lack of compassion can change your wife from the spunky, bright woman she used to be, into an insecure stranger. Avoid these five actions and save your beautiful relationship while you still can:

1. Lack of attention

Your wife understands that you have difficult days full of commitments and responsibilities, but she still wants you to spend time with her. She doesn't want to compete with your television programs, video games or cell phones. Regardless of your circumstances, she needs your attention, and she should be your number one priority.

2. Lack of praise

Women love to be praised, especially by their husbands. Compliments make your wife feel confident and loved, so don't shy away from admiring her attributes and qualities. Also, compliments don't have to stay behind closed doors. Give her praise in front of your family so everyone can see how much you adore her.

3. Lack of dating

You need to continue dating even after you are married, perhaps even more than you did before you exchanged vows. Dedicate a specific day of the week, or once a month if time allows, to spend an evening with your wife. Those fun, romantic date nights will make her fall for you all over again.

4. Excessive criticism

The daily grind causes both the good and bad sides of your personality to show, but a bad day doesn't give you the right to criticize your spouse. If your wife endures constant criticism from you, her confidence and your relationship will shatter. Remember that everyone has qualities to improve on. No one is perfect, but instead of criticizing her, offer her your support to better yourselves together.

5. Comparisons

It doesn't matter if you're comparing your wife to your mother or to a dear family friend, just don't do it. Comparing her to someone else will hurt her heart and her confidence deeply.

Where there is love, there is healing. Be aware of your wife and her needs, and also be aware of your attitude toward her. By doing so, you will have a long, happy life together.

This article was adapted and translated from the original, "5 maneiras em que os homens estão matando silenciosamente suas esposas." It was originally published on familia.com.br.

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Since we are such great influences on the lives of our children, it is important to encourage them and express our love not only with the words "I love you", but also through our actions and examples.

The majority of children see their parents as great mentors and heroes. It's no wonder that many children, when asked what they want to be when they grow up, report that they wish to go into the same profession as their parents.

Do not miss the many opportunities you have each day to encourage and build your little ones. Make sure they grow up feeling loved and fully capable of pursuing and living their dreams.

Here are eight things you should be saying to your children every day:

1. You can do it

Small tasks that need to be done at school or around the house may seem difficult, or impossible, to your little ones because they have a limited view of their abilities. At this point, it is important for parents to encourage their children and remind them that they have the capability to do what is required of them.

2. Do not give up

Encourage your children to persist even in the face of all the difficulties that may arise in their lives. Remind them not to give up, but to believe. Repeat this phrase whenever you can so your children will always remember the importance of persevering.

3. I believe in you

Show your children that you are their number one fan. Show them you truly believe in their capabilities and know the potential they possess.

4. You are smart

A child that feels less intelligent than others will often surrender at the first sign of difficulty, claiming they are simply "not smart enough." To prevent your children from falling into this defeated outlook, praise their intelligence whenever you can.

5. We learn with practice

When you first start something, you are often faced with major difficulties. However, over time, practice makes everything look simpler. The task or problem itself has not changed, but the ability to perform has been increased. Make sure your children learn this early on.

6. Always do your best

It is important to teach your children that in any situation they find themselves they should always perform to the very best of their abilities and never accept anything less.

7. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you

This old saying is an important value to the present day where society dictates the rule of advantage. Children need to learn to be kind and gentle from an early age to be better prepared to go out into the world someday.

8. I'm always here whenever you need me

Parents should create a feeling of safety and security for their children. Your kids need to know and feel that they will never be alone because their parents and family members will always be there for them.

The little things you do every day can instill values "‹"‹in your children that will help them grow into confident and happy children and future adults. Be sure to teach your little ones whenever you have a chance.

This article is a translation and adaption of the original article, "8 coisas que você precisa dizer a seus filhos todos os dias." It has been republished here with permission.

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When we become parents, the well-being of our children becomes one of our top priorities. When they are afflicted with an extreme illness, our concern increases because seeing our children suffer brings a feeling of helplessness unlike any other.

Because of this, the first sign of something abnormal makes us jump to see an expert or find a way to cure the illness before it escalates beyond our control. However, even with the all-seeing eye of a parent, we can sometimes overlook the dangerous symptoms of disease.

Here are some of those dangerous symptoms that should never be ignored:

1. High fever

In the case of a baby up to three months old, a temperature of 100 degrees Fahrenheit and above should be immediately checked out. For a baby that is three to six months old, a high fever is considered to be anything above 101 degrees. After that, a high fever for your child is usually about 103 degrees Fahrenheit.

Remember that the level shown on the thermometer is not the only important thing to consider when diagnosing an problem. If the fever is still low, but the child is very unwell, contact your pediatrician.

2. Long-term fever

If, after four hours of using antipyretic drugs, the fever has still not lowered, or if an untreated fever (high or low) has lasted for more than five days, seek medical help as soon as possible.

3. Fever associated with headache

Be very wary of complaints of neck pain, a stiff neck or headaches associated with fever, as these symptoms can often be associated with meningitis.

4. Red spots on the skin

Allergic reaction to a number of diseases such symptom needs to be examined so appropriate treatment can be initiated. If you notice any spots, consult a pediatrician.

5. Irregular penis

Ideally you should be having monthly checks of his little body to detect spots that may be irregular with jagged edges or growing. If you find something like this, seek medical advice.

6. Sudden stomach pain

If your little one is complaining about pain around the navel, or on the right side of the abdomen, take a trip to the pediatrician, especially if these complaints are associated with other symptoms such as vomiting or diarrhea. This can be a sign of appendicitis, a condition that progresses rapidly unless diagnosed quickly.

7. Headache with vomiting

Migraines are not uncommon in children, but these symptoms need to be examined more carefully.

8. Decreased urine

This symptom is often associated with a dry mouth, pale skin, vomiting or diarrhea and can be a sign of dehydration. If you notice paleness and listlessness, call 911 or find the nearest hospital.

9. Blue Lips

This signal may be associated with difficulty breathing. You may notice that your little one is breathless or wheezing as they breathe. This could be a respiratory problem caused by an allergic reaction or even an asthma attack. In this case, look for the nearest medical help.

10. Swelling of the face, tongue or lips

These are characteristic signs of a strong allergic reaction. Contact your doctor to see if the symptoms require medical attention and quickly take your child to the emergency room.

11. Vomiting after fall

Especially when it comes to a baby, this may be a neurological emergency. If your child has this symptom, do not delay; go to the doctor immediately.

12. Excessive bleeding

If your child has a cut and the bleeding does not stop even after several minutes of pressure, take the little one to your pediatrician so the correct sterilization and treatment may be administered.

It is important to take immediate action if you notice your child suffering one or more of these symptoms. Even if it turns out that it is nothing serious, it is better to be safe than sorry. If, even after a visit to the doctor, the situation worsens or the symptoms do not go away, consult a second opinion.

This article is a translation and adaption of the original article "12 sintomas perigosos nas crianças que você jamais deve ignorar" published on familia.com.br.

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Medicine has developed fantastically in recent years, finding new drugs that help with the control of various diseases that once haunted, and even killed.

But despite medical advancement, prevention is key to maintaining our health and fighting diseases early.

Good use of medicine is another important factor. Misuse of it can also cause harmful symptoms.

Cancer, a disease that scares many people, has a greater chance of cure when treated early. It stops being so scary when we periodically take preventive tests.

We must carefully watch every day, as different symptoms may indicate that something is not quite right, and there is need for medical help.

Because cancer can attack various parts of the body, it is crucial to pay attention to our bodies. Below are 10 cancer warning signs.

1. Frequent cough

Frequent coughing can simply be a sign of allergies — but when the cough is very persistent you may want to consider seeking the opinion of a specialist. Even non- smokers can develop throat, larynx and lung cancer. Therese Bartholomew Bevers, MD of the MD Anderson Cancer Center, said that "Most coughs are not cancer, but a persistent cough needs to be evaluated because it can be a symptom of lung cancer."

2. Weight loss without dieting

Though losing weight is the dream of many women, without dieting it can be the indicator of a disease. Look out for sudden weight gain as well.

3. Frequent pain in the joints

Joint pain is one of the symptoms of bone cancer, whether it is frequent or not. Getting headaches does not mean you have a brain tumor, but it's always nice to closely evaluate them. Many ovarian cancers are diagnosed after persistent abdominal pain. And lung cancer can be spotted from chest pains.

4. Fatigue without apparent cause

Being overly tired for no apparent reason can be a sign of the blood cancer Leukemia. Being aware of changes like this in your body can save your life.

5. Jaundice

When jaundice, the yellowing of skin most commonly seen in babies, appears in adults, it may be a sign of liver problems, including cancer.

6. Dark spots and freckles that change color and size

It is never a bad idea to have freckles and moles checked periodically. Also, all new dark spots on the skin should be examined. Skin cancer can be detected precisely from these spots.

7. Eye pain that persists

Pain in the eye, a symptom of eye cancer, can easily be mistaken as a result of being tired. If pain persists, consult a doctor immediately.

8. Discharges with or without blood

Discharges of different color and odor should also be investigated. Vaginal bleeding outside the menstrual period may indicate cervical cancer. Check in with your gynecologist at least once a year.

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9. Hoarseness

Hoarseness can be started by the swelling of the vocal cords caused by a more serious problem, and could be a cancer indicator.

10. Diarrhea and bleeding

A diseased intestine can cause bowel changes.

Do not be terrified every time you notice any symptoms, such as those mentioned above. Remember that many of these things are also common symptoms of other illnesses and things we encounter on a daily basis. However, if any of these symptoms persists longer than normal, it is always smart to check it out. It could save your life.

This article is a translation and adaption of the original article "10 sintomas de câncer que a maioria das pessoas ignora" published on familia.com.br.

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