"This world is stupid and nothing makes me happy." Sound familiar? These words may have come out of your child's mouth at some point, and it was probably very alarming. What did you do as a parent to raise such a narrow-minded and ungrateful child?

If you've heard this phrase (or one similiar) your kid most likely dwells on problems, is demanding, has no energy and is never satisfied with anything. In their eyes, their life not as exciting as it could be and it's very hard on them.

What's the reason for a child with this kind of attitude? The reason for this is simple: it's caused by a lack of motivation.

Kids are having less and less to worry about, causing them to be unmotivated, irresponsible and spoiled. Keep reading to find out how to stop this vicious cycle now.

1. Meet their emotional needs

Teenagers need to be aware of what makes them happy and satisfied. In order to achieve this, you as a parent can create a trusting environment where your child feels safe expressing their feelings and emotions. Don't call your kid "crazy," - just listen without judging. Maybe your child would feel more accepted and loved if they got one-on-one time with both mom and dad each night before bed. Maybe they would do better if they got more verbal encouragement. Don't be afraid to alter your parenting style to accomodate your child.

2. Ask where they see themselves down the road

This question encourages your child to reflect on their life and tell you what motivates them to live. Encourage (and help) them to set goals and achieve them. Even if your child's dream seems out of reach, don't discourage or disapprove of them. Be grateful that they're passionate about something.

3. Ask what they want out of life

Motivation can't be forced on your kid, but they can discover it on their own. Maybe your child doesn't know what he or she wants right now, and that's OK. However, you can introduce your child to good role models or expose them to lots of new opportunities to help them figure out what they want to do with their future.

4. Set rules but be flexible, too

Your kid needs time to socialize and have fun, but it's also important that he or she has responsibilities. Make sure they ask permission to do certain things, monitor their screen time and don't give them too much free time. Create age appropriate chores and jobs for your child to do around the house. Expect your child to keep your curfew and maintain certain standards to help raise a motivated child who is ready to succeed.

5. Have consequences

Tell your child that they'll have consequences if their daily responsibilities aren't completed. If studying didn't happen in the morning, your child will have to do it later when they could be hanging out with friends. Make sure your kids have responsibilities and stick to your set consequences to teach hard work and discipline.

6. Be interested in their life

Your child will feel more motivated if you're a part of their life. Stay involved in their studies, activities, new friendships and places they go. You can help your child appreciate their live by putting together a journal or photo album of their accomplishments and memories. Being interested in their life will also help them realize their life isn't so boring - it's actually pretty great.

Lack of motivation can easily infect your child, so do what you think is necessary to help them become motivated. Your love and dedication to your child will show them the value of their life and help them grow up to be happy and motivated adults.

This article has been adapted and translated from the original "Una nueva adicción entre los adolescentes: entérate y protege a tu hijo" which was originally published on familias.com.

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A smile spreads across your face when you see a picture of him and your heart pounds faster every time you hear his voice. You are in love and you wonder if that "cloud nine" feeling will last.

Even the strongest relationships can bring doubts. How do you know he will love you forever? Well, if he does these 10 things, your love will last:

1. He loves you for what's inside

When he met you, his eyes weren't drawn only to your body. He loves you for who you are, for your personality, values and accomplishments.

2. He enjoys your sense of humor

Men adore women with a sense of humor. Being able to laugh at yourself, and during the most stressful moments reduces stress and helps you feel confident in your marriage.

3. You are his whole world

He doesn't take a second glance at another woman, because he chose you. While remaining independent, you work together, commit to each other, face challenges together and make memories together.

4. He respects you

Respect is a key within marriage. Love can't blossom without respect for one another. Mutual respect is the bridge that allows couples to love each other and stay together, even with their differences.

5. He loves you just the way you are

He thinks you're beautiful even in your slippers and pajamas because his conception of beauty goes beyond appearance. He will love your wrinkles and gray hair the same way he loves your soft skin and silky hair now.

6. He knows how to forgive and ask for forgiveness

He doesn't stop loving you or hold grudges when you make mistakes, and isn't afraid to confront you about his concerns. When he does something wrong, he apologizes not only with words, but also by his actions.

7. He cares about your dreams

A selfish person is only concerned about their own responsibilities and dreams. A man who truly loves you commits his energy and time to things you want because he cares about your happiness.

8. He is a peacemaker

He doesn't shy away from conflict. As a peacemaker, he leaves no room for disagreements, but doesn't shame you for thinking differently. He considers and values every opinion as he tries to reach a solution.

9. He is sensitive

Whether it's an afternoon watching the river, the wings of a butterfly, the warmth he feels when holding your hand or the look on his grandmother's face: he captures these moments with his eyes and embraces the gentle side of his personality. He is sweet and calm, and you know he will always be on your side.

10. He isn't in a hurry

Even when you are running late, he isn't worried about it. He doesn't complain that you're taking too long picking out your outfit. He doesn't say, "I'm tired of waiting," or "Hurry up." He takes a moment to look at you in your beautiful new dress and kiss you on the cheek.

If you find a man with these traits, never let him go. He's a keeper, and he will love you forever.

This article has been adapted and translated from the original, "10 rasgos de un hombre que te amará por siempre." It was originally published on familias.com.

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